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Post by Rogue on Jan 26, 2011 16:26:22 GMT -5
I mean my socks....but that's not the reason I made this topic.the reason I made this topic was becos I neeeeeeeed advice.boy advice and since you guys happen to be mostly boys ( creative boys at that!) Yyou guys are the perfect advice peoples. I'm lame. ANYWAYS, so there's this boy that I'm scared of. Well actually I wouldn't call it scared because I'm so awesome and tough and cool , I don't get scared....its just something. He's a suicidal loner. There's something about him that just pulls at me. I want to talk to him....but I CAN'T. Why, yopu may ask? Well there's the fact there's like a magical forcefield that comes in between us when I try to talk to him. (Not really a forcefield, I'm just a freak) So I thought maybe I could write him a letter explaining my inabilty to speak to him and whatever else. I'd keep it anonomouse. But alas, that doesn't seem right. So gantzers, tell me, how do I talk to someone I can't speak to?
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Post by Rogue on Jan 26, 2011 16:30:54 GMT -5
This is urgent btw
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Post by Fay on Jan 26, 2011 17:07:53 GMT -5
So gantzers, tell me, how do I talk to someone I can't speak to? It's completely your own fault that you can't. If you don't know what to talk about then start with the fact that you couldn't talk to him. Just walk up to him, be like "hey, I'm interested in you, and I've always wanted to talk to you but I couldn't for some reason. This is like, the first time this has ever happened to me, like, yeah, .....like......yeah." Just be completely frank and blunt with him. If you feel as if you want to fuck him in the face then just say so straight to his face (not saying that's how you feel). And if everything gets fucked in the ass then you can just be sad/embarrassed/cry and then you'll be fine later. Since you're so tough and whatnot. I don't see the problem here, if you're not scared, then there should be no problem, unless you simply don't want to talk to him, in which case you wouldn't be asking for advice in the first place.
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Post by basod on Jan 26, 2011 18:45:30 GMT -5
He might be a Nishi in the making so best make friends before he goes all shooty shooty.
Just say "hi" and stare at him.
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Post by Rogue on Jan 26, 2011 21:11:42 GMT -5
you guys sure are alot of help. >_>
anyone else?
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Post by Haloninjaman808 on Jan 26, 2011 21:24:57 GMT -5
Honestly, if he won't talk to you, a letter of anomity would do you no good. You do need to be blunt and frank with the person. If you like the person, or at least want to converse with them, then actually TALK. There is no other way around it, and if you just sit on your ass, then nothing will happen.
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Post by ronnellj on Jan 26, 2011 21:30:20 GMT -5
Halo's right if you want a guy to talk to you. your gonna have to swallow your pride go upto him and say "hi" or "hello" something to start a conversation then make it a routine soon you won't feel as uneasy as you are now
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Post by DawgX on Jan 26, 2011 21:33:49 GMT -5
Honestly, if he won't talk to you, a letter of anomity would do you no good. You do need to be blunt and frank with the person. If you like the person, or at least want to converse with them, then actually TALK. There is no other way around it, and if you just sit on your ass, then nothing will happen. U speaking from personal experience? And, Rouge. Just be blunt.
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Post by Haloninjaman808 on Jan 26, 2011 21:44:12 GMT -5
Yes, and viewing the experience of others.
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Post by Rogue on Jan 26, 2011 22:23:12 GMT -5
Fine. This will prolly end up killing me when its over. When he ignores me ill prolly go home and binge eat. >_>
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Post by Haloninjaman808 on Jan 26, 2011 22:46:06 GMT -5
Or you will be happy and have a new buddy. JUST BE FRICKIN PERSISTANT.
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Post by Belexar on Jan 26, 2011 23:10:39 GMT -5
Go to him. Talk to him. Eat pie. Give me cookies. Not necesarily in that order.
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Post by mundus on Jan 27, 2011 14:01:15 GMT -5
Give him a pound of vodka, concealed in a ziploc bag, that way you know that its "designed with you in mind".
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Post by Haloninjaman808 on Jan 28, 2011 1:20:11 GMT -5
A pound of vodka. Wow, i didn't know you could measure liquor in basic weight. I thought it was fl.oz.
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Post by Rogue on Jan 28, 2011 1:30:53 GMT -5
May i mention that i did talk to him before, at the beginning of the year. It happened like this :
Jordan, Derek, and I were skipping math and chilling outside. Jordan ended up throwing a rock at the window , so we booked it. That guy happened to be around the corner, so i greeted him happily and asked him whats up....and he stared at me for like 3 minutes straight, until derek and jordan pulled me away....
WTH?!?!?!?! so i did talk to him. Now what do you guys think?
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